Saturday, October 6, 2007

Abu Simbel




We took a cruise ship south from Luxor to Aswan. The great dam that the American government refused to help fund in the early 1950s so Gamel Nasser turned ...to the Russians.

source unknown: "The constructing of the High Dam created an artificial lake which threatened Abu-Simbel complex. UNESCO and the Egyptian government undertook the task of cutting the temples out of their rock-cliff and reassembling them in a new man-made mountain.

The great temple was raised 60 meters and moved 180 meters to the west of its old site. The stones, statues, and columns of the temples were cut into giant pieces ranging from 3 to 20 tons in weight, each with a height of 3 metres and a length of 5 metres. Main cutting tools were hand sews."


Abu Sinbel is stunning. We flew there in about 30 minutes from Aswan. On my first trip to Egypt in 1967 I didn't have the money to make the trip so have always wanted to do it. Now I could do it with Andrew and Caroline.

Po Lin monastery and the BIG BUDDHA


from Wikipedia....

The statue is named Tian Tan Buddha because its base is a model of the Altar of Heaven or Earthly Mount of Tian Tan, the Temple of Heaven in Beijing. It is one of the five large Buddha statues in China. The Buddha statue sits peacefully on a lotus throne on top of a three-platform altar. It is surrounded by eight smaller bronze statues representing gods or immortals.

The Buddha is 34 meters high, weighs 250 tons, and was the world's tallest outdoor bronze seated Buddha prior to 2007.[1] It can even be seen as far away as Macau on a clear day. Visitors have to climb 268 steps in order to reach the Buddha, though the site also features a small winding road to the Buddha for vehicles to accommodate the physically challenged.

The Tian Tan Buddha appears serene and dignified. His right hand is raised, representing the removal of affliction. His left hand rests on his lap in a gesture of giving (dhana). The Buddha faces north which is unique among the great Buddha statues. (All others face South.)

Thursday, October 4, 2007

My friend Raymond Lee who gave me the "blog bug"



Raymond Lee and I met in June 2007 at the Cow Palace in San Francisco the day before the start of the 2007 SF-to-LA AIDS Life Cycle 650-mile bicycle ride fund-raiser. We got assigned to the same Roadie (i.e., non-cyclist) team called "Advanced Set-up B." We worked with ten other men and women (straight, gay) for a week. It was a blast especially as during our slow periods Ray would suggest an adventure near camp - a bridge, a sparrows' nest, nice neighborhoods, the Dollar Store.

Takashi and I later had dinner at his parents' house in San Francisco where he treated us to a home-cooked meal (and we met his Mom and sister Vickie). In September 2007 Ray was our second houseguest in Portland and with him we visited the Columbia River Gorge, Mount St Helens, the "smallest park" in the world, Nike's campus headquarters (complete with buildings named after Tiger Woods, etc) in suburban Beaverton, and other highlights.

Raymond was my inspiration to start this blog. He put most of his life story and photographs with loads of descriptive text on his blog. Check out the work of a master here. (My contribution was suppplying some of the pix for the AIDS Cycle and Portland portions.)

Some of my favorite blog and web sites...

Some of my favorite blog and web sites are listed below. As this is a work-in-progress, please alert me to good sites that could be included here.

1) A site dedicated to the 21yo college student Matthew Shepard brutally beaten and left to die in a hate crime, simply because he was gay, click here.

2) EXTENSIVE personal and family history by my friend Raymond Mark Lee (DOB 1984) who was a "Roadie" crew volunteer with me at the 2007 AIDS Life Cycle from San Francisco to Los Angeles, go to his "raymakesmyday" blog here.

3) information about your town or any other town, check the "zipskinny" site here.

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

"The Courts a tough road to gay marriage"

Courts a tough road to gay marriageBy Jay Lindsay, Associated Press Writer | September 28, 2007

BOSTON --When bells rang in 2004 to celebrate the nation's first gay marriages in Massachusetts, opponents warned that liberal courts were moving to permit gay marriage around the nation.

Three years later, despite attempts in many states, the nation's highest courts haven't followed Massachusetts' lead. Last week, Maryland's high court became the latest after New York, Washington and New Jersey to refuse to grant marriage rights to gay residents.

"We were very disappointed to lose," said David Buckel of Lamdba Legal, which led the court fights in New York, New Jersey and Washington. "But you have to expect it in a civil rights movement because what you're doing is creating enormous change and there are enormous forces lined up against us."

Gay marriage opponents said the losses, coming in the states thought to be most open to gay marriage, show how far advocates overreached after the ruling in Massachusetts. Gay activists point to gains, such as court-ordered civil unions in New Jersey, and say they are prepared for a long fight. Two gay marriage cases are pending before high courts in Connecticut and California.

One reason for the court struggle could be that an anti-gay marriage decision in a liberal state such as New York creates cover for other high courts who face the issue, said Yale law professor William Eskridge, a constitutional scholar who supports gay rights. For example, the Maryland court cited the New York decision.

"There's a lemming effect," Eskridge said. "The fact that all the other lemmings are doing it makes the other lemmings feel not so bad about it."

Marriages in Massachusetts began six months after the state's Supreme Judicial Court ruled in November 2003 that gays had a constitutional right to marry.

Gay marriage proponents carefully selected where to advance litigation next, weighing factors such as whether the state had anti-discrimination laws protecting gay residents, the strength of the gay community and a state's legislative composition, Buckel said.

At the same time, opponents across the country immediately began to work to put marriage out of judicial reach by passing state constitutional amendments defining the union as between only a man and a woman. Twenty-seven states now have the amendments, including 14 that approved amendments in 2004.

Even in the legal venues deemed gay-friendly, that swift public backlash against the Massachusetts decision had an impact.

"I think that frankly has scared judges in state courts a bit, even in states where they've tended to be quite liberal," said Dale Carpenter, a University of Minnesota law professor.

First came the loss in New York in July 2006, followed by the decisions in Washington state, New Jersey and Maryland. Tony Perkins of the Family Research council, which opposes gay marriage, said the rulings were about more than political expediency -- they're also legally correct.

"There actually are some good judges that do what they're supposed to do," he said.

Gay marriage advocates made a strategic blunder by becoming unwilling to accept modest steps toward marriage, such as same-sex partner registries, said Lynn Wardle, a Brigham Young University law professor and gay marriage opponent. A less provocative approach might have been the difference in the one-vote losses in high courts in Washington and Maryland, Wardle said.

Buckel said gay advocates would continue to bring court cases where appropriate. The process of going before the judiciary helps gay advocates reach lawmakers and the public, and that can clear the path for expanded rights, even if there's a court loss, he said.

High court losses don't mask huge gains for gays in the last decade, Eskridge said. Nine states have approved spousal rights in some form for same-sex couples -- Connecticut, Vermont, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Maine, California, Oregon, Washington and Hawaii.

Every state will eventually have to create some kind of legal structure to deal with the financial and social realities of same-sex relationships, Eskridge said. It may not be gay marriage everywhere, but it will be some form of expanded rights, he said.

"It took generations to make any progress on race," Eskridge said. "This stuff doesn't come overnight."

Monday, October 1, 2007

What's the optimal committee size?

To get something done, a committee should consist of no more than three people, two of them absent.

Check out my new blog "What second date?!"

http://whatseconddate.blogspot.com/

It's a humorous and ideally educational look at the modern gay dilemma of NOT getting a second date.